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Sister refused to help with wedding
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AITA for refusing to lend my sister money for her wedding after repeated lies?

A long, messy family saga about boundaries, lies, and a wedding money request.
Posted • Nov 16, 2025
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• 3min read

So my sister asked me for R10,000 to pay for a deposit for her wedding. She has come to me several times asking for money and promised to pay me back — but always finds excuses and never follows through. This time I said no.

She gaslit me in front of the family saying I was 'mean' and 'selfish' because she 'deserved' my help. Several relatives sided with her. I stood my ground. She then posted a private message publicly to shame me.

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