I’ve Been With Men My Whole Life — But None Have Ever Wanted to Please Me
Summary
The OP shares a deeply personal frustration: throughout her entire dating life, not a single partner has ever been willing to give her oral sex. While she has always been generous and attentive toward her partners, she has never received the same level of intimacy in return. This pattern has begun affecting her confidence, making her feel undesirable and ashamed of something completely normal.
Despite trying to communicate her needs, she’s been met with excuses or outright rejection. Over time, this has created a painful insecurity—she worries there’s something “wrong” with her or that she doesn’t deserve pleasure. Posting anonymously was her way of releasing a hurt she’s carried silently for years.
My Thoughts
Intimacy should never be one-sided. What OP describes is not about the act itself—it’s about feeling worthy of pleasure, closeness, and mutual effort. Too many people internalize relationship imbalances as personal flaws, when in reality, it says more about the partners they’ve chosen than anything about them. No one should feel ashamed for wanting reciprocity or emotional connection through physical affection.
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